Thankfully I’m not married to someone that takes this position in life. Unfortunately, it appears the individual in question does not care about the logic of the argument, just that their feelings were hurt…and they want sweet, sweet revenge (or not that last part at all).
FLG: We just more care about different things, and women choose to believe that what men care about is dirtier or less important, and thus we are pigs. Look, if every time you feel like he should know what you are expecting without telling him, then think of the French maid outfit. It’s best just to tell him what you’d like. If he says no or balks in some way, then maybe there is an issue. For example, if you told him you wanted him to come over with soup and he didn’t, then that’d be an issue. Or at least an issue you could discuss like adults. This he should know what I want and then when I don’t get it I don’t talk to him stuff is, frankly, high school bullshit.